I felt tremendously empowered in playing entire songs, extremely simple at first, but nonetheless precious pieces of this beautiful puzzle, musicianship.
I spent hours in my bedroom practicing chords, trying new songs, treasuring my new found fortune, improving and polishing my skills, it was a fantastic journey to the most amazing places, but still… all in the bedroom. I was an incredible bedroom guitarist. And, that was fulfilling in itself but trouble is, it didn't make it "real".
Being a musician and playing music can really only exist if an exchange occurs, as simple as having 1 person playing and 1 person listening. Dogs are wonderful listeners but they don't make it "real", sorry. The magic happens when the connection is made from one human being to another, validation.
A rush of reality felt true when at 11 y/o I braved up and would go play with a friend at mass every Sunday. Then, came recitals, local contests, High School performances, bands, studio recordings, radio contests, local gigs! Any outlet I could possibly find to play my guitar in front of people! It was true, it was real now. reality!
When teaching, my goal is to show students new chords, strumming patterns, lead technique, etc. But it is also to share the feeling of empowerment acquired by playing the guitar. A feeling that will be theirs and theirs only. The key to their world of music, where all is great all the time. A token to freedom.
Transitioning from being a bedroom guitarist into a musician is a scary but freeing process. Here are a few things you could look into:
- Playing the guitar at a friend's party!
- Joining a Group Jam Session! (Happy Hour Guitar http://nycguitarschool.com/intclasses/happyhour.shtml)
- Going to an Open Mic !(http://www.meetup.com/nyc-guitar-school-open-mic/)
- Joining a Band Class! (http://nycguitarschool.com/advclasses/adultrockband.shtml)
- Forming your own band!
Eliane :-)